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How To Build Self Confidence - 5 Fast, Easy Ways

By Alfred C. Etchison


What is self confidence? How do you build and improve your self esteem, The problem of many guys are just having the confidence to walk up to a girl and talk to her, they get their brains frozen once she shows up, most guys can't just stand up and address their peers. Now that is low self esteem but it could be improved over-time through a tried and tested techniques.Many guys are stuck with inferiority complex, I was at first, I was scared of approaching pretty girls, like they would beat me up if I say the wrong things, I tried to change but it only takes them showing up again before I start sinking again, this problem lingered for months and even years before I figured I could improve.
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If you think about it, what we call failure is really just feedback and adjustment. You do something and see what results you get from it. If you're happy with them (you succeed), just keep doing what you're doing. If you're not happy (you fail), stop doing what you're doing and try something else. Learn from your mistakes and always do your best.

ACCEPT YOURSELF AND BELIEVE YOU CAN. This is the first step to self discovery, some guys just keep thinking they would be more confident if they can only add an inch to their height or if they could just change their color or size but the truth is that there is almost nothing you can do about your height, color and size except accepting them as the component of the real you. You are the real you, you just need to accept yourself and the world around you will accept you too.

Because you're in charge of what's going on in your life. If something doesn't go as expected, just fix it. Don't waste time blaming other people for it.Don't think about failure.I've told you before that there's no such thing as failure. That's the truth.If you understand that failure doesn't exist, you'll see that you aren't afraid to fail anymore. When that fear is gone, you won't have to think about failure, and you'll become very successful.Thinking about failure is a waste of time, and time is the only thing you really don't have.

Believe in yourself.Have you noticed how in some countries people tie an elephant to a little stick and put a thin piece of rope around its ankle? Have you ever wondered why that animal doesn't just snap free?Well, it's because it doesn't believe it can.See, when an elephant is small, they put it in shackles and attach a strong chain to its leg. Of course at first, the animal pulls at it, jerks and jumps around to set itself free, but then, after some time.it just gives up.

I know that guys with low self-esteem, guys that keep feeling inferior always have a way of thinking they are not worth all the things they shoot at, they just hope they might achieve it by chance, they bask on their looks and height and stuff like that to proclaim these judgments.When you have knowledge about a particular matter, you handle it with confidence and enthusiasm, you shiver less and you look tough, So one way to build up self confidence is by developing your inner potentials. This is my final tip on building self confidence - you need to walk into the world and try out whatever positive thing you read, success is not achieved when you decide to lock yourself behind closed doors without putting a foot forward. walk into the world, try talking to people, talk to pretty girls, they might not respond the first time you try, try again and keep trying till you are good and then till you are almost perfect.




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